- An overwhelming urge to destroy yourself and everything around you both literally and metaphorically
- Wanting to create deep, soulful, and life-changing connections with the people you love, while simultaneously having the overwhelming urge to push everyone away, destroy all of your relationships, and isolate yourself
- One shift in your mood can change the entire atmosphere of a room
- Being disgusted by your own body
- A mother with an extremely intense demeanor or emotionality that you’ve been attuned to since you were young
- A psychic or empathic connection with your mother: you feel what she feels, and it can be difficult to differentiate between which feelings belong to who
- Your grandparents and ancestral history strongly influence your unconscious identity
- A family history shrouded in darkness or secrets
- An intensely rich emotional nature
- Feelings that are deep and transformational
- Feelings that can unconsciously control you or sabotage you if they remain repressed or unchecked
- The more you explore and work through your subconscious feelings (especially those from the past), the more you unlock your personal power to transform yourself
- Feelings so strong and intense, you think they might kill you
- A feeling-nature that is shrouded in fear, secrecy, and paranoia
- Fearing your emotions to the point of repressing them
- Refusing to emotionally open up to people because you fear that you might scare them away
- A strong attachment to the past that you simultaneously cannot let go of, but desperately wish to escape
- Natural healing abilities that can be accessed by embracing and accepting your emotional intensity
- Mood swings that could kill
- Wishing you could just fucking chill out for one fucking second
- Desires that rip through your veins and consume every inch of your being
- An emotional rawness that demands an outlet, otherwise inner pressure builds and builds and builds until you either completely explode or completely deflate
- Absolute, undeniable strength and resilience in the face of any challenge
- Raw desires and needs that may not have been sufficiently met while you were young that now express themselves as unconscious behavior and thought patterns
- Emotional catharsis and upheaval that is necessary for self-growth, evolution, and transformation
- Secret or hidden desires for passionate and life-changing sexual experiences
- Facing your fears through nightmares
- Facing your fears through healthy and positive sexual exploration
- Extreme fear and guilt surrounding your emotions, desires, and sexuality
- An interest, attraction, or openness to the occult or other psychic/supernatural phenomena
- Wishing you could control your emotions, but finding that the more you try to do this, the more out of control they actually get
- Feeling like you’re at the mercy of your emotions and desires, constantly being pulled back and forth between different extremes, wishing you could have just one moment of peace
- Atmospherically tangible moods that radiate off of you in waves
- Being able to intuitively perceive other people’s emotions and moods, picking up on them like an antenna does a radio station
- Secrecy and paranoia about even the smallest of things
- Always wanting to keep some part of yourself a secret, even if it seems silly to others
- You’re at your strongest in a crisis
- Control issues
- An undeniably strong bond with your family, roots, ancestors, and upbringing that you wish you could escape sometimes
- Wishing you could open up to someone without the fear of rejection or abandonment
- Absolute devotion and loyalty to the people you love most
- You’re an emotional sponge that’s subconsciously in tune with the subtle and underlying energies present in your immediate environment, and this can often overwhelm you
- Time alone to process your emotions and sift through any emotional energies you may have absorbed throughout the day from others is a must
- An emotional alchemist
- Your deepest and darkest feelings are transmuted into gold through acceptance and understanding
Advice: Don’t resist your feelings. This only results in self destruction. That’s the trick with Pluto-Moon aspects. You fear that embracing your intense feelings and desires will destroy you, but it’s the opposite that is true. Never let anyone shame you or guilt you for the depth of your emotions. Your Pluto-Moon is a powerful gift that demands your attention every day, and I know it seems impossible, but the more you explore this side of yourself, the more you will discover how your intensity works to bring you strength and healing.
*Note: The main focus of this post is the intense nature of Pluto-Moon aspects and how those can manifest and be experienced by the individual. However, as always, it is important to take the WHOLE chart into account when considering any astrological placement. So, while I may have over-exaggerated the intensity that often accompanies Pluto-Moon placements for the sake of creating a comprehensive list, please remember that there are plenty of other placements that might exist in a person’s chart that would balance out or alter the descriptions provided above.
“Putting energy into dance. Putting energy into the spiritual. Putting energy into meditation. Passive energy. Getting your groove on. Slow jams. Glamoring. Dazzling. Magicians. Sorcerers. Jedis. “These are not the droids you’re looking for.” Disappearing acts. Slipping in and out of roles. Con artists. Smooth operators. Soul men. Sex magic. Seduction. Ineffectual. Futile efforts. Sleazy actions. A weak father. Feeling that the men in your life are unreliable, weak or simply not around. No strong men in your life. Confusion about masculinity. The Sensitive Man. Spiritual men. Men who transcend the normal ideas of what it means to be masculine. Disillusioned with men. Feeling let down by men. Disappointed by people’s actions. Feeling that nothing you do matters. War of ideals. Compassionate action. Acting with sensitivity. Weak willed. Pushovers. Wafflers. Asserting your ideal visions. Acting on ideals. Championing the underdog. Spiritually competitive. Musically competitive. Poetry competitions. Asserting your imagination. The courage to let go. The courage to act on behalf of a higher power. Using energy for a higher cause. Actions that serve a higher purpose. Sexuality that serves a higher power. Spiritual sexuality. Idealizing the sexual experience. Idealizing passion. Passionate about ideals. Wanting to physically merge. Physical surrender. Surrendering to your physical impulses, for better or worse. A drive that knows no limits. Having no boundaries surrounding what you will or will not do. Weak physical boundaries. Inability to say no. Acting like a martyr. Self-sacrificing. Spiritual energy. Refined, delicate energy. Actions that are dictated by other realms and otherworldly experiences. Spaced out. Asserting yourself in a chaotic manner. Unfocused energy. Diffused, permeable energy. Selfless efforts. Having no idea what to do next. Difficulty accessing personal will power. Difficulty acting on your own behalf. Putting yourself last. Acute physical sensitivity. Dulling your senses as a way to cope with anger. Using drugs, alcohol, sex…or anything really to drift out of reality rather than deal with anger. Daydreaming as a response to anger. Spacing out to cope with anger. Finding a spiritual path that helps you release anger. Releasing energy through imaginative, dream-like experiences. Releasing energy through meditation. Active meditation. Active dreamers. Acting like a flake. Film actors. Magnetic sexuality. Conveying a sexual presence on film. The ability to mesmerize. Finding an outlet for anger through acting, dancing or music. Dancing your ass off. Competitive dancing. Violent dreams. Delusional behavior. Ecstatic dance. Moving energy in imperceptible ways. Dealing with forces that other people have trouble seeing or recognizing. Psychic energy. Reiki. Tai chi. Subtle force. Acting on dreams. Unrealistic approach. Indistinct sense of direction. Impatience that dissolves. Energy that dissolves. Force that dissolves. Courage that dissolves. Transcendental energy. Avoidance. Escape. Drifters. Grifters. Passionate poets. Melting sexuality. Pervasive lust. Fighting ghosts. Fighting addiction. Sexual fantasy.”
Venus in square or opposite to planet in the first house: Ego disrupts the partnership.
There can be a bit of a emphasis on ones identity in their partnerships or even in relation to their own self worth that can often serve to undermine the more harmonious expressions of the natal venus. In relationships this can show a tendency to act to brashly and or prioritize ones own sense of self above their union, likely making it harder to compromise or even manage he more co-dependent aspects of a partnership. For these natives it usually is a point that they need to “know who they are” before they get involved with someone else-otherwise they loose themselves in the partnership all together.
Venus in square or opposite planet in the second house: gluttony of the heart
-now this can create a more reserved energy to partnerships as well as the self worth, it can fluctuate due to the natives own individual possessions and for a lack of better words what they do have and what they don’t really defines everything for them. More than most they’re sensitive to who they let in often causing them to either prolong the courting stage or to outright use other unconsciously for the sake of security, yet withholding a huge portion of themselves in an unfair manner. They often need to learn to balance equality-give and take in their partnerships! Often others will notice that they’re always “holding back” which can often push others away.
Venus in square or opposite planet in the third house: confusion avenue
-for these natives it can be a bit of a mental playground-they can have a moody sense of self, that changes faster than the weather. Most of the time they’re hopelessly romantic-but a lot of it is mental and often hard to verbally act upon. They unknowingly maintain a great deal of distance from romantic intrest which can give of the impression of disinterest. They value communication but also struggle with intergratimg affection in their words often coming across as more blunt and aloof then they mean too. They need to learn mental and emotional unison otherwise they’ll often here the repetitive “do you even care” from their love ones.
Venus in square or opposite planet in the fourth house: Emotionally stunted.
-this one can play out in two ways, either the natives are overly emotional or lacking in it. They often struggle with balancing how much is to much and how little is to little in their partnerships. It can seem as though they’re extremely emotionally intense one moment, wanting it all and then some and then distant and out of reach the next moment, completely unavailable. They often have very strong emotions attached to their Venusian values but may not know how to harmoniously express these more affectionate and sensitive feelings In a healthy way! The goal for these natives is to learn temperance! To learn how to get comfortable with their feelings so not everything is being done in a hasty fashion.
Venus in square or opposite planet in the 5th house: Attention deficit
-these natives have a very unconscious desire for attention, be it emotional, be it physical, be it mental-they in some way shape or fashion need that life force in order to feel competent and content otherwise they act out in passive aggressive ways that actually undermine their own connections with others. Because of the unbalanced energy projection the need for attention is actually projected in a bratty way-which sadly isn’t in any way the intent of these natives! They actually hate that it comes out this way but it’s really the only way their bodies know how to express it! These natives need to learn how to be compromising with others as often their standards can be a bit dillusionary in nature and before you start getting angry at others for not working to your standard you must take a look at what they’ve already done for you!
Venus in square or opposite planet in the 6th house: over critical docter
-there is a focus on perfection, these natives can often spend a lot of time into perfecting themselves and trying to uphold mental standards for those around them as well that can be both unrealistic and unfair. They often place a heavy burden on themselves to preform—and often with the disrupted Venusian energy is can emerge as restlessness and stress or complete lethargy. They often internalize much of their critique but because of the intense energy others can often feel their piercing glare! Your relationships can often take ages to begin mainly because your lovers can feel very intimidated to make any wrong moves with you often creating a emotional
Barrier on both ends. The lesson here is to ease up on yourself! Perfection doesn’t exisit and the moment you start letting things just happen the easier it’ll be to maintain.
Venus in square or opposite planet in the seventh house: The problem interaction
-for these natives, partnership itself-and one on ones tend to be tense and a bit hard to get a grasp on. It can feel as though you’re walking on egg shells with others and vice versa! Often times presenting yourself in a way that’s true to who you are can be tough as you tend to project an overly passive air to those you meet! Romantically you either project to much of yourself or to little-it can seem that identity is blurred in romance but even more so that once you get in a partnerships you want out. The focus here is that these natives must learn to get comfortable with “people” often these natives make the act of one on ones harder than they need to! Just be yourself! A partnership isn’t about “us” it’s about “you and me”
Venus in square or opposite planet in the 8th house: Greedy romancer
-these natives can be unknowingly greedy! The types to take, take, take without really ever giving similarly to the 2nd house! The themes associated with the 8th house aren’t harmoniously being dispensed to the venus planet often creating a tendency to derive pleasure in Venusian persuits but also failing to truly value them because the core self is never really opening up to the experience in a deep or emotional way. These natives can have a tendency to mistake sex and intimacy for love and simultaneously use it for manipulation. The focus here is to learn to open up! The longer you stay clammored the more you’ll find that karma has a way of coming back to you! Your lovers will only give for so long! And it’s never fair to let someone else bare their raw heart without any meeting in the middle!
Venus in square or opposite planet in ninth house: a blockaid off belief
-the real struggle for these natives appears in their values! They may struggle incorporating their desires with that of their own morals and beliefs. They can want someone or something, something that’ll make them the happiest in the world but still push it away or struggle to accept the affections of it if there values don’t match up! Many people who have a religious backing or relationships of the same sex, different color and so on have this in their charts as it shows that often the values that were taught during upbringing create tension and confusion in the world of their own wants and needs! They can come across as pompous, arrogant and even angry not meaning to but mainly because there is so much disharmonious energy being dispensed. The lesson here is that these natives need to realize at some point, “am I doing this for them or for me? Is it what everyone else wants or is it what I want? Am I living by everyone else’s expectation or am I living by mine” go after what you want! No matter what life is way to short to live someone else’s story.
Venus in square or opposite planet in the tenth house: married to the career
-there is a tendency to place work and ones image above all else here, unlike a more positive aspect these natives often don’t have normal alerts that let them know when they’re beginnng to neglect those closest to them, so rather then stop these natives often submerge themselves in their public persona-even becoming superficial in some cases to the point of which they treat their lovers like a mistress or dirty secret. They prefer hidden romances and aren’t the type to readily bring things to the public, especially where their affections are concerned. These natives have huge hearts and honestly find it very very hard not to dedicate themselves in totality to their lovers but often instead of give in to their desires they channel it into their work and in some cases to an unhleathy degree. These natives must learn to stop using their ambition as a scapegoat from truly commiting emotionally to someone special! Because one day that corporate office won’t exisit but your lover who you’ve placed on the back burner still is waiting for you gingerly at home 43 years later.
Venus in square or opposite planet in 11th house: Bros over Hoes.
-these natives can over prioritize friendships in a bit of an unhealthy fashion! Often they use the friends as a means to keep a loose exit in their partnerships, as a means to not feel so “trapped” and this doesn’t really pan out in the best way! Often their partners feel dismissed or 5th place to a stranger you might’ve met only a moment ago mainly because these natives project their Venusian energy in a off key way, easily being affectionate with friends yet becoming hard to reach and even mysterious towards lovers often making them feel confused or as if games are being played. These natives often do have passionate feelings for their lovers but tend to tense up and freeze in their presence, to be truthful with friends it’s casual it platonic!no sense of urgency is present but sadly with their partnerships it’s harder for them to integrate a more peaceful and playful vibe. The goal for these natives is to realize that a relationship is what you make of it! And your lover can be your best friend as well but you have to allow for that rather than closing your lovers off completely.
Venus in square or opposite planet in the 12th house: elusive lover
-these natives can be very intangible, for one their emotional nature fluctuates quite a bit because the 12th house themes are hiding the Venusian energy in a more tension filled way. Their personalities can brake through the smoke from time to time but due to their fluid nature it can also disperse just as fast. These natives are extremely receptive and emotionally deep but aren’t always able to calmly express this energy or even confront it without pulling a disappearing act! Now in some cases the natives emotionally withdraw or go silent as a means to internally reflect but this is often done at the expense of their lovers feeling unknowingly. The lovers often can feel as though these natives are cold or aloof or in some cases “don’t really love them” which is furthest from the truth! These natives are so loving and sweet romantically but struggle to allow themselves to express this side in a affectionate and loving manner so instead the actions can seem machine like and redundant. The goal here is for these natives to allow themselves to dive deep, to feel everything unknown and known-to let the walls down and take it all in! For only then can they truly loose themselves in the love they seek.
Legend:
You can read this post in the following fashion
Example: Venus in aspect to mars(in the first house)
Example: Venus in aspect to first house lord(ex: Jupiter for Sagittarius rising or mars and Pluto for Scorpio rising and so on..)
If the house is empty feel free to see how venus aspects the lord of that house! If Venus is aspecting a planet in that house feel free to interpret that as well!
An example would be
Venus Scorpio square Neptune in the 9th house
•So one would see that besides the normal traits associated with venus square Neptune-there is also venus square to 9th house values indicating that the beliefs can cause clashes in partnerships and might lead to delays and cause confusion in a neptunian fahsion.
•or let’s say where using house lords and Venus in Gemini is square Jupiter and let’s say Sagittarius sits in the 6th house one would say that 6th house values such as perfectionism and day to day obligations can cause trouble in romance! And let’s also take into account Jupiter sits in the 10th? This would also add 10th house values as part of the issue.
It’s a bit complicated but I hope this makes sense guys!
big temper, violent father figure, experiences with violent men in general, parental betrayal, isolation, sexually licentious and immodest, esteem issues, subjects herself to unspeakable disrespect and degradation, violent death
2nd House, Sugarbaby:
fad diets, eating disorders, remarkable sense of taste, some fit the definition of functioning psychopath, often slandered, “come-back kid”, feral “earthy” sex, crimes involving money, success in business
3rd house *Exalted, The Other Woman:
deception, unwed mothers, miscarriage, abortion, death of child, loss of child custody, obsession, an “Eve” wife who knows about a “Lilith” mistress (or vice versa), talented writer/speaker, “shape-shifting”, problems (or abuse) involving siblings, extreme loyalty to siblings, “Lilith” sibling(s), dark humor, extremely clever
4th house *Detriment, Immaculate Misconception:
cold childhood, abandoned by a parent (due to deployment, divorce, or death), “black sheep”, “rags-to-riches” (somewhat uncommon), mixed ethnicity, bilingual, early awareness of difference, frequent problems with obsession, childhood abuse (usually sexual), talent in acting (manipulation), paranormal disturbances (could be demonic), “cursed” lineage, “Lilith” offspring
5th house, Lotto Winner:
“Lilith” offspring, trust issues, paranoia, gambling, incredible luck bestowed at least once, talent with writing, “Lilith” physical appearance ( very dark or red hair, lithe body), children outsmart them, secret hobbies, taboo hobbies, talent in acting/lying/performing/seduction, “Lilith” creative pursuit (burlesque, pole dancing, sexual art), sex is “art”
6th house, Ms. President:
rejected by their teachers, exposure to dangerous activities in childhood (or during development of their own Lilith-like qualities), little patience for the mindless routine jobs, switches jobs quickly, problems with hygiene/health (sometimes), self-preservation, authority
7th house, Mary Magdalene:
may be viewed as a slut even if she is not sexually promiscuous, either the person becomes “Lilith” or looks for someone (often a spouse) to be “Lilith” for them, refusal to share resources with others, wants others to “see the light”, preoccupied with relationships, abusive spouse (victim of one or perpetrator), strong-willed spouse
8th house, Persephone:
intensely intimate, unsettling, may exploit others sexually, may have been threatened as an infant, childhood abuse, power struggle, objectified from a young age, keeper of secrets, attracted to dark people, occult interest, occult gifts, intuition, “Lilith” soulmate
9th house, Bride of Dionysus:
wants to transcend all limits, needs to be revolutionary in ideas, drops out of higher educations because they are bored, switches schools, encounters Lilith-types on long-distance travel, do not remarry, unorthodox philosophy
10th house, The CEO:
miscarriage, envious, power hungry, could be a talented dancer, manipulation of others through the career, ladyboss, Patroness of Illegitimate Children, cold mothers, demise of “Eve”, home-wrecker, perfectionist, shrewd
11th house, Rebel Rebel:
odd sexual fantasies, not accepted by peer groups, greater maturity, “restlessness” with regard to children, marriage to a “friend” or a “friend with benefits” which causes problems, “Lilith” best friend, hatred/suspicion when it comes to trends, groups, and government, vigilant protester
12th house, Masquerade:
post-natal depression/psychosis, nightmares, sleeping problems, paranormal disturbances, shadow people, face of “Eve”.. mind of “Lilith”, “Lilith” nature is not recognized by others, hold their friends close and their enemies closer, abusive relationships, depression over lack of soulmate, leader, popularity, lover of costumes and masks, serves others
Mercury in the 4th house people are conditioned to learn as much as possible from the environment. She receives information through abstract, active, and osmotic channels and makes a home for herself in the bookshelves of knowledge she accumulates. The individual can create a very idyllic and simple life for herself. She can be nourished by her books and feel a sense of belonging when she can identify with characters or conditions. She can use her mind to hide from the world as a secluded sanctum of safety and take delight in shutting her eyes to disappear inside. The individual enjoys learning through storytelling and imagination. She manages to retain a childlike mind that offers fresh and insightful perspectives. It makes her environment consistently stimulating, provoking, and interesting. It’s important for opinions and thoughts to reflect her personal value system and emotional morality.
The individual with Mercury in the 4th typically has a tremendous memory. There is an excellent skill for retaining information and self regulated study. It’s common for the individual to view the parents as being esteemed teachers when she was a child. It means that the lessons or the way that she was directed to think or base her opinion on can be deeply conditioning and very hard to break free from. The individual can inherit and reflect the thinking patterns of her parents, and she can become the influential thinker in her own household. One or both of the parents may have been quite clever, outspoken, and encouraging with schoolwork and study. She may have been homeschooled or expected to achieve high grades. It’s also possible for the individual to inherit or reflect a nervous condition from one of the parents. Internal activity is restless and tense with Mercury in the 4th followed by bouts of calm and dream. The individual has a very good way of talking people through distressful situations or soothing with the voice. The intuitive facilities conduct directly through the mind and reveal themselves as thought.
Mercury in the 4th people can get very bound by personal rituals and habits. The mind is comforted by repetitive and known behaviour. So there can also be a strange mental experience here, like it can be extremely difficult to get songs out of her head or change the topic of thought. Mercury in the 4th typically delight in having an active, chatty, and animated home where words and conversation flow freely from room to room. The individual can flick through old memories in her mind like its a photo album and remind other people of important things they have forgotten. She can spend a lot of time thinking about family and staying in close contact. If the relationship with the mother was positive, the individual will long to hear the sound of her voice as soon as chaos threatened. Maternal guidance calmly directs and settles her mind, because once a ripple has started it easily becomes a tsunami. She builds a home inside her head, a refuge held together by memories and fantasies, a shelter by the sea, active with thoughts and ideas and words and dreams.
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